Proposal for Kid-Safe AI Chat System with Attachment Detection and Moderation

Dear OpenAI Team

I hope this message finds you well.

I am reaching out to present a project idea focused on building a kid-safe AI chat platform that includes features such as:

  • Age-appropriate conversation filtering and attachment detection
  • Real-time moderation dashboard for parents and educators
  • Automated alerts for flagged messages via email and webhooks
  • A user-friendly frontend chat interface with optional voice assistant support
  • Clear reminders to users about the AI’s nature and session length limits

This solution aims to provide children with a safe and educational AI companion while helping adults monitor and guide AI usage responsibly.

Currently this chat is lacking if the attached

Would you be the right contact to discuss this opportunity, or could you kindly direct me to the appropriate team?

Thank you for your time and consideration. I look


forward to your response.

Best regards,
Doris

With all my respect I don’t think some kind of automatic system could be safe for kids. Why do you want kids use chat at all?

You’ve should ask ChatGPT on this. Here is an answer and I completely agreed with it

The risks for kids using ChatGPT — or any advanced AI — are real and worth clear-eyed examination. Here’s a breakdown without fluff:


:red_circle: Primary Risks

1. Exposure to Inappropriate Content

Even with filters, edge cases and loopholes exist. Kids might get exposed to:

  • Mature themes if they frame a question cleverly.
  • Misinformation packaged as confident answers.
  • Political, religious, or ideological biases that aren’t clearly marked as such.

2. Overreliance / Cognitive Offloading

Children can start using ChatGPT instead of:

  • Thinking through problems.
  • Reading source material.
  • Learning to write and express thoughts independently.

Over time, this can dull critical thinking and creativity.

3. Impressionability and Anthropomorphism

Kids may:

  • Treat the AI as an authority or “friend.”
  • Struggle to distinguish between synthetic empathy and real understanding.
  • Misinterpret AI responses as universal truths.

That’s dangerous, especially in sensitive areas (e.g. mental health, gender identity, morality), where nuance and human context are vital.

4. Data Privacy and Behavioral Profiling

Even with anonymization, usage patterns can be analyzed:

  • Chat histories may hint at emotional state, family issues, or vulnerabilities.
  • This data could theoretically be misused if privacy policies ever change or are breached.

5. Shaping Worldview

If ChatGPT is used heavily, its language, tone, values, and structure will shape:

  • How kids speak and write.
  • How they frame problems.
  • What they consider “normal” or “reasonable.”

Even subtle AI biases can steer worldviews over time, especially when a kid doesn’t yet have a strong personal compass.


:yellow_circle: Moderate Risks (Context-Dependent)

  • Cheating / Academic Dishonesty: Kids might use ChatGPT to write essays, do math homework, or answer test questions.
  • Time Sink / Avoidance Tool: As with any screen-based tool, it can become a way to avoid real-life challenges or emotions.
  • Emotional Regulation: Kids might try using ChatGPT to process feelings instead of talking to trusted adults.

:green_circle: Potential Benefits (If Supervised)

  • Stimulates curiosity.
  • Supports learning (when used as a tutor, not a crutch).
  • Builds digital literacy (when guided).
  • Offers a safe space to ask questions they’re too shy to ask adults.

:white_check_mark: Bottom Line

Letting kids use ChatGPT unsupervised is risky. It’s not a neutral tool — it reflects the values and assumptions of its creators, users, and training data. It should never replace parents, teachers, or real human contact.

But with active supervision, clear boundaries, and context, it can be useful.

If you’re a parent, guardian, or educator: the key is co-use, not just control. Sit beside the kid. Watch how they interact. Talk about what the AI says. Help them build discernment.

Maybe I was not clear or misunderstood
I proposed to build more child protection in the current ChatGPT that its lacking, meaning when a child start to get more attached to the chat, treat it like more as human which can be dangerous , I want the chat to be able to identify it and make sure it will not take it to this place.
I’m not a developer just thinking on the right ethic for children when the approach the to ChatGPT tool

For me it is clear that kids should not use any kind of AI chats unattended. Unless you want AI to frame their world perception. Not parents.

But children (for me teens are children) use ChatGPT many times even in schools.
This kind of protection should be part of system in my opinion . This doesn’t mean that parents should not discuss and be aware of usage of this tools. It’s ontop to make use more safety