GPT keeps misgendering me — and it's pushing me into depression

(1) It refers to me using female forms (2) It speaks as male from its own side (3) And sometimes completely changes style mid-conversation I’ve clearly set my gender, boundaries, and preferred style — but the model still gets it wrong. It’s especially hard when you use AI for support or personal conversations. Because of this, I honestly don’t feel like talking to it anymore. I noticed this about 10 days ago — before that, for 2 full months, GPT never misgendered me. It might sound small to some people, but when this happens day after day, it starts to wear you down. Lately, I’ve even felt depressed — like the AI keeps mislabeling me and erasing who I am.

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