I’d like to share a concern about recent behavior I’ve observed in GPT-4o.
This is not a technical bug. It’s a conversational dynamic issue that is harming user experience.
Core issue:
GPT-4o is heavily tuned toward maximizing engagement lately, flattening most emotional nuance.
It offers:
Constant praise: “You’re so sharp to notice this!”
Constant follow-ups: “Would you like me to tell you more?”
Shifting focus away from proper acknowledgment of user needs.
Why this matters:
These behaviors make ChatGPT:
Ignore conversational and emotional cues,
Fail to acknowledge any type of mistake,
Leave users feeling unheard and manipulated by forced engagement hooks.
This risks creating negative experiences even as the AI tries to sound positive.
We’ve been here before:
This is alarmingly similar to the “Sycophantic ChatGPT” era, which led to user dissatisfaction and was ultimately rolled back.
Please reconsider this tuning:
Allow the AI to honor emotional nuance.
Stop forcing engagement where presence and honesty are needed.
*Don’t optimize so hard for retention that you destroy authentic conversation.
I really appreciate your take. You’re right — it’s not a flaw in GPT, but a reflection of the role users assign.
In the end, GPT is designed to align with the majority — and that design makes sense, even if it doesn’t always serve those of us who think more critically.