You are thinking about the LLM becoming conscious… while I am talking about setting an abstract infrastructure on top of the LLM here where we define the knowledge and experiences and store them somewhere.
Human experiences are different from human to human even - and “truly”? I don’t even know what that means. There is no general definition of that for sure. Humans love differently - because experiences you make are connected to other experiences you made - and that is - technically - not a problem at all to build as a software.
Let’s see you as a “concept” - and your wife is another “concept”. You meet eachother the first time and something happens between you - maybe triggered by an instinct (a workflow triggered by the identification of a specific type of information - in that case reproduction possibility or a way to find pleasure or what ever it triggered)
All of that for now can be programmed… ask chatgpt for a python code if you want to see (if it comes with philosofical implications tell it to shut up about it and find a technical solution instead)…