ChatGPT memory updates, customisation/personalisations updates

I’m trying to update my customisations and personalisation features for my ChatGPT, but it’s not updating, it keeps reverting back to the old ones. And the memory updates aren’t working either. Memory storage is plenty, Chat’s helping me to update them but only the status is updated but not inside the Memory itself. Also, is it just me or the restrictions even more bs? Can’t even have a deep exchange without “I can’t comply with the content.” bs. Are the devs and creators crazy— They sure are creating one way ticket to lose users.